Too Much....

From: 'The Intimacy Factor' written by Pia Mellody & Lawrence S Freundlich 

"When we become boundaryless, we allow in too much from another person or send out too much from ourselves. We may be too loud, too sexual, too emotional, or too overwhelming with our opinions or learning. When we are sending out too much stuff and bombarding our partner, she becomes vunerable, victimized, resentful, and miserable. We have broken through her safety zone and caused her discomfort and pain. "

Holy crap.  This is me: too sensitive, too emotional, too overwhelming, too opinionated, too deep...  If all of this is a dysfunctional boundary problem, then who the hell am I?